What Gaslighting Isn't

This article explores the details of gas lighting behaviors and warns the reader not to overuse the term to describe behaviors that are not in fact gas lighting.

Victims of genuinely sociopathic behaviors and relentless bullying campaigns often develop hypervigilance later in life where they see bullying, gaslighting, abuse and evil everywhere. This hypervigilant style also occurs in those whose ideology trains them to seek out heresy and wrongness everywhere.

It’s a tricky thing. We don’t want to be caught off guard by those who are truly sociopathy and wish to play with us for personal pleasure. Yet, we also want to make sure we’re not throwing around words like “bullying”, “gaslighting”, “hate”, and “abuse” when we are having disagreements with people. These words not only cast unfair aspersions upon innocent people, they also lose their value when we do this because people begin to roll their eyes when the real thing finally comes along.